My boyfriend and i have been together 4 years. We are both 24. His mom has been in the hospital for 3 days now because her asthma has been flaring up real bad. I went into the hospital yesterday morning because i haven't been able to keep any food down for almost a week now. My boyfriend has barely been visitinf me because he has literally been with his mom all day every day. I understand thats his mom and all but he is my boyfriend and we are very serious about our relationship and our future together that i feel i should be as important to him as his mom not mpre important than but as important. I just feel really hurt that he us seeing his mom tons more than me. My mom and my best friend said maybe its a sign he isn't as serious about our future and us as i thought. They also said its a sign that he is always going to be overly attached to his mom and never make me as his long term girlfriend one day wife his priority. Is that true am i doomed? I just feel really hurt that i am basically coming second best. I mean we have been looking at houses together but i dont always wanna come second best to mommy especially when i have an emergency situation going on
I have been in the hospital?
What Guys Said 1
Your mother and best friend are absolutely right. He sounds like a momma's boy and you will be second best as long as she is alive. If you get married and have children. . . if you have a daughter, she will be daddy's girl and you will probably once again feel that you are second best. You should be concerned about the future with this guy.0
What Girls Said 1
All things aside this is still his mother. And if you're saying it's flaring asthma thay can be very serious seeing as asthma associates with a delicate organ. And you only mentioned this of him seeing his mother more than you in the hospital. If any other occasion he pays you more attention then that's fine. But this is his mother. I wouldn't hesistate to choose my family over a boyfriend Any day0
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