Most Helpful Guy
Well, his mom and sister are family. So the fact that they know and you don't isn't as ridiculous as you're tying to make it look.
But this isn't a trust issue, it's just a comfort thing. He just doesn't want you to be able to walk up in there whenever you want.
This is him hanging on to that one bit of distance between you two, he can still somewhat control when he sees you.
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Most Helpful Girl
The passcode just to get past the entry? I would think that's very weird and annoying! My ex literally gave me the key and everything and I waited in his apartment till he came home and we dated for 3 years. However people move at different paces and I would genuinely wonder why I don't have it yet, you're not asking for a key