My boyfriend and i are both 24 and have been together 3 years. He has his own apartment and i sleep over there every weekend. We live 30 minutes away from each other. His mom and sister know his passcode to get in but yet he won't tell it to me his own girlfriend. I mean its not like we been together 3 months its been 3 years shouldn't he know me well enough to trust me after this point? Also its weird that he would give it to them and not me considering they dont even sleep over there i sleep over there every freaking weekend. I literally go over there and if he isn't home yet i have to wait until he gets home to let me in. I just find that odd that after 3 years he doesn't trust me enough to go in his apartment. Like what. I plan on moving in there next year is he going to magically start trusting me then.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, his mom and sister are family. So the fact that they know and you don't isn't as ridiculous as you're tying to make it look.
But this isn't a trust issue, it's just a comfort thing. He just doesn't want you to be able to walk up in there whenever you want.
This is him hanging on to that one bit of distance between you two, he can still somewhat control when he sees you.0
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Most Helpful Girl
The passcode just to get past the entry? I would think that's very weird and annoying! My ex literally gave me the key and everything and I waited in his apartment till he came home and we dated for 3 years. However people move at different paces and I would genuinely wonder why I don't have it yet, you're not asking for a key0