So my boyfriend goes to a school 5 mins by train away from me. so I only get to see him on weekends and once during the week when we watch movies. Since i'm in college and it's the weekend, I love to go to parties and drink on both Friday and Saturday. However he doesn't like to go to parties at all (he does drink and smoke though), and even gets a little bothered that I drink both days when I'm with him. I understand him not liking me drunk all the time when i'm around him, but it's only cause it's the weekend and that just so happens to be the only time we see each other. I don't mind staying in one day, but I would prefer to go to a party Saturday and with him. He's fine with me going to them, but I'd rather have him there with me! Is this gonna become a problem? Like is this enough to be a deal breaker cause now I feel like i'm giving up a party night I was so excited for, so I can stay in and watch movies AGAIN with him. And don't get me wrong I'll have fun with that. but sometimes I wanna change it up and not watch movies everytime we see each other.
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Sounds like it already is a problem, and not one you can reconcile easily. Really if talking it through with him doesn't help then it might be time to move on.0