I feel like im surrounded by the worst guys. like they all have some horrible baggage, most are potheads (and i used to smoke but i dont anymore, so i can't stand being around people who do), some are flakey, some are boring, some play too much, some are just extremely irritating, and some are just trying to get laid. i mean whenever i do date someone, i make sure its a decent respectful guy i dont just settle for whoever and i dont put up with any bs, but i haven't dated in a whileeee because its just so rare to find a guy thats good enough. and my standards are really not even that high, just has to be attractive to me, nice, caring, and interesting. where are all the good guys?
Most Helpful Guy
So, there are a lot of good guys out there but I feel that are a lot of girls are blind when they are looking for the right guy. Guys are the same way, they keep hurting themselves but the right person could be right next to them the whole time.
You could also just be in an area where no guys interest you but that seems kind of hard to believe especially if your in college. If your not, then maybe a change of area would help.
Honestly, just keep looking because you will definitely find a guy who can meet all of your needs.2
Most Helpful Girl
There are good guys out there, unfortunately you have to wade through all the ones you listed to find them.1