How can you know if a guy just wants to use you for sex vs having genuine feelings for you or looking for a real relationship?

This has been a recurring problem with guys in the past, even when I communicated that I didn't want that happening. How can I know this/avoid this in the future?


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  • Well do they respect your boundaries as in they dont automatically assume cuddling or huging = sex. And do you play dates smartly as you know when to say stop if your drinking.


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  • I don't know. I don't know how to read anyone.

    The only way to avoid it is to never date or have sex again. I do know that though. Opening yourself up to the good in the world is also opening yourself up to the bad. The only way to avoid one is to block yourself off from everything

  • When a man loves a woman
    Can't keep his mind on nothing else
    He'll trade the world
    For the good thing he's found
    If she's bad he can't see it
    She can do no wrong
    Turn his back on his best friend
    If he put her down

    When a man loves a woman
    Spend his very last dime
    Trying to hold on to what he needs
    He'd give up all his comfort
    Sleep out in the rain
    If she said that's the way it ought to be

    Well, this man loves a woman
    I gave you everything I had
    Trying to hold on to your precious love
    Baby, please don't treat me bad

    When a man loves a woman
    Down deep in his soul
    She can bring him such misery
    If she plays him for a fool
    He's the last one to know
    Loving eyes can't ever see


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