I have been single for a long time. I think it has been like 5 or 6 years since I was in a committed relationship. I have had girlfriends in the past but when I was 21, my girlfriend and I decided to part ways mutually and it was not like a bad break up or anything.
Since then I have been single and Its because I wanted to be single, but a lot of people dont seem to understand that. Other than the fact that I wanted to be single, I haven;t found a girl that I really could care for. I have not really tried either so it all plays a role.
So my question is what do you typically think if you find out a guy has been single for a long time like I have?
I ask this because anytime I am asked about it I get really different respones. Some girls have asked what is wrong with me? Most ususally ask why and I tell them but they dont seem to get it.
Why is this a big ting for some ladies?
Most Helpful Girl
I'd assume he was selective about who he dated, because his heart is on reserve for the right girl. I'd also assume he didn't depend on other people for his happiness , because he is able to be happy being single until he meets the right girl. 😊1
Most Helpful Guy
I would like to know the answer to this as well, because I have been single for over 5 years now. Whatever answers you get here, are likely to help me as well! :)0