I was hanging out with my boyfriend yesterday and I took his phone and jokingly asked if I could go through it. Then he said sure and clicked on messages and started scrolling. Then I saw a convo with a girl called "Tinder Francesca" so I asked him to explain because the convo was dated during the time we've been going out. He said that they met on Tinder before he and I started dating, and that the girl now has a boyfriend too and that it wasn't anything. I skimmed the messages and it was just small talk and no flirting and I trust him in the fact that I don't believe he would cheat on me (because he's been cheated on before) and other than that he's been an amazing boyfriend. Obviously he's still capable of cheating on me but its highly unlikely, but I didn't know how to react to this situation... opinions?
Found my boyfriend texting some girl he met on tinder. Am I overreacting?
What Guys Said 4
BEWARE- there are loyalty issues with your guy... watch him0
either you trust him or you don't. Wanting to go through his phone shows you don't really trust him0
He's a nice guy
What Girls Said 3
that's shady... i'll move on and leave him0
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