I use to ask myself where are the good guys?
But I think the assholes just evolved into assholes in the disguise of good guy
Most Helpful Guy
Do not give up hope. the nice guys that will treat you right and respect you and honor your desires are all around you. the difference is they typically do not put themselves out in the forefront, due to the majority of pain they had suffered from being looked over since most women (girls) seek and or pick the bad boy.
most good guys are very patient and will not pursue someone who is not seriously looking for them in particular. most nice guys have been burnt on many occasions. So that doesn't help your chances when they see you taking an asshole in disguise. Nice guys know the intentions of other guys and when they see you picking a bad guy you are off the nice guys radar.
So it is all up to you. if you seriously want a nice guy with all the nice sweet intentions, then be patient enough to seek it and or wait for the path to cross. but when you continuously pick just anybody you limit your luck significantly.
bad dudes are are easy to spot, so the nice guy turning into asses is all your own misconception.
IF: you seriously desire a guy of your dreams then absolutely believe you will receive that. but if you focus on a nice guy is a front for asses then that is exactly what you draw towards you. so change your mindset and you will practice patience and blind faith that that one right guy is out there waiting to meet you and it will happen.
Most Helpful Girl
You're right. The "nice guy" doesn't exist. There are nicER guys out there but they still have asshole tendencies. After being pursued by who I thought was a "nice guy" for over a year, I gave him a chance. We got pregnant and after a few months of him saying he was committed and all that, he left me pregnant for a teenager who had just finished high school days before. Nice guys are usually assholes who've learned the right things to say.