Most Helpful Guy
maybe when your older you can talk to him but right now your two young and publicly it would be weird to explain the age gap.
Most Helpful Girl
If he has sex with you it will be considered statutory rape regardless of how you feel about him or the situation. He will go to jail and be in A LOT of trouble. If you truly care about him I think you'd want to spare him for that. Furthermore 18 year old men aren't that mature. For example most of the girls in school when I was a senior did not date guys our age. It seems that way because he's 4 years older than you. You also need to take into consideration why is an 18 year old talking to me, a 14 year old when he could easily talk to someone his age or even 17.