Thanks for taking the time to read but just need to get some advice really on a new spark ;)
I met a girl through some mutual friends of ours at a party a little more than a month ago now, we hit it off and ended up kissing etc. We have been speaking a lot since and things got quite intense over text, how she was saying she can't wait to see me etc and how I make her smile so much and so on...
She came to visit me last weekend and we had a great time she stayed over for 2 days at my place as she lives around 300 miles away, we did sleep together, which could be a little soon? But had a great weekend in each others company, kissing, holding hands etc.
Since she has gone we are still texting and flirting a little etc and she says she is looking forward to seeing me again in a couple of weeks when we go on a trip with our mutual friends.
But now seems less intense on the messages, like I say still flirting etc but the general vibe seems like she may be holding back a tad bit, not sure if she might be getting cold feet or me just being paranoid but she doesn't seem AS excited as she was before.
Now question is as I really like this girl, do I back off myself a bit now or carry on as is? I know she must be keen herself as she wouldn't travel 300 miles to see me, or is this me just overthinking things as do have a tendancy to overthink sometimes.
Thanks for reading this and advice is greatly appreciated
Long distance, yay or nay?
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The distance could certainly be a factor in her behavior. I don't think you should back off though if you really like her. Long-distance relationships are hard but not impossible if both people are dedicated and committed to each other. I think you should just talk to her about this. Ask her how she feels about it and see what's going on. Hopefully she'll be direct and honest with you.0
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