So I'm friends with this guy from my semester. We've been friends for a while, not good friends, but we do talk for a while everytime we see each other, I have taken him with my car to classes sometimes, we applied for the same job and therefore talked with each other about that, about where we come from, about our family and stuff; aaaand I had my horse moved here somewhere near campus and I talked with him about that for quite a while (vet school, so he likes horses, too), and he always says he wants to see my horse, and stuff, and in fact, he has already gone with me to the farm once! We took my horse out for a walk and talked the whole time about stuff we like, and surprise, surprise, we have very similar interests; like I'm a weird Lord of the Rings fan (named my horse after a LOTR horse, have basic elivsh language knowledge lol) and he loves LOTR, too and stuff like that! There have been a few incidents like that! Or I went to a small town in Montana last spring, and told him about it, and somehow he has been there, too, because he has friends there! Like, what are the odds!!
Anyways, I like him. I'm starting to like him! And so he has facebook-invited me to 2 partys before, and last night, I went to one with other people from our course. I didn't see this guy too much, but when we did, he was very sweet but friendly, we danced, drinked, laughed and talked and such, he showed me around blabla.
Anways, but at some point some other guys and I went up to the dance floor, and suddenly, out of the blue, this guy I liked just kissed some random girl and made out with her on the dancefloor? Ehm, where did that come from?
Anyways, of course I was shocked, but tried not to show it too much. I don't ever want to be the college make out girl again. I want to be treated right, I want to be dated; I want to be taken out! I want a real relationship. I feel like I'm over all of that hookup nonsense college stuff!! Help please! Do I have a chance with this guy?