Most Helpful Guy
Get over it.
Your assuming life should resemble your fantasy which has been falsely represented by crap female propaganda media like "The notebook".
You assuming he should act that way because of false expectations brought on by female fantasy, would be the same as him expecting you to do anal and gang bang because of false expectations brought on by male visual fantasy.
Most Helpful Girl
Give him some time, now he doesn't feel comfortable with it and it's understandable.
So nice things for him and he won't have problems telling you sweet things