Most Helpful Guy
It's not okay for women to have a side man or men to have a side woman. If you're betraying your partner's trust, you're a bad person. The fact that you're framing this as if your only moral dilemma here is whether it's appropriate for a female, and how to work this out most conveniently for you, not whether it's fair to your boyfriend, is sickening. If you're not satisfied with your boyfriend, then leave him and find someone who does satisfy you. Don't cheat on him. You're being incredibly selfish.
Also, a comma or period here and there does a world of good.8
Most Helpful Girl
Anyone who knows me on GAG, @Junebaby23 knows me as a Sharp and Straight shooter who never points fingers. And with what you have said here, dear, it seems you may want your Sweet cake and eat it Two but sometimes in life, that may include strife, we always cannot have it Both ways most days.
You say you love 'My boyfriend' but with him not fulfilling you the way you may want nor need, you have had thoughts of leaving him but you are 'Not ready,' so with this being said, this idea is Not going to totally leave your own Head nor be put to bed because you will always have thoughts of Cheating on him because you are Not a happy camper.
Don't start a "Friends with benefits" with some side dish that is not a Good deal, not even a Full meal because he doesn't want to have anymore in Store but a 'Like ok,' and you may end up regretting it by possibly losing Who does really Love you and probably loves You... Unconditionally.
If you want to pursue any other grounds with another, break it off with your SO or take a Break and find out what may or may not make you satisfied. And it might not hurt to try and sit down with your own honey and come to some sort of compromise as to how to spice things up so you do not end Up... Flubbing up.
You Need to find out which End is Up and do You... Love him unconditionally?
Good luck. xx1