I can't understand I'm 21 next month and never had a girlfriend or had sex with a girl. I look about 15 and I'm 5,7 slim build. Not having a girlfriend makes me feel pissed when I see guys 5 years younger talking about exes at 16 and I'm like what's it like to have a girl who you love and care for and make them feel special. I have been told I'm cute and and a very funny person. But I have always been put as a freind nothing else. I feel upset that I have missed out on meeting a girl and being a virgin at 21 is just making me feel desperate and not good enough. Why me I'm good looking just young looking for my age. Girls want a man and until I develop physically and grow facial hair I feel like I'm gonna have to wait a long time. Wish I looked my age.
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HEY!!! Don't feel that way, please. You're 21, not 50. It's completely normal that you've never been in a relationship yet. Don't feel pressured into finding a girlfriend I know you want to know how it feels like but if you just have some patience you will. Don't overstress it just go with the flow. You might meet the girl you'll marry next month, who knows?1