Anyway, i catch myself having hight expectations to how things are going to go and how fast they are going to go ( films have ruined me), i try not to let all these small voices and all my overthinking stay in the way, but it still super hard..
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know. I don't have high expectations towards dating.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, you just need to acknowledge that it's all bullshit. When I was young I waited for this fairytale shit to happen and I was sorely disappointed every time. You need to tell yourself that if you keep expecting everything in the world, you'll end up with nothing, because fairytales aren't real.