I've liked a guy for a little bit now and we flirted very lightly together but he has a girlfriend. We got drunk last night, flirted with each other and cuddled a little, not for long. He told me he was going to leave her and get us our own place and help take care of my son and I. Was really nice. Is it true that drunken words are sober thoughts? He is very respectful towards me, got very protective when his 19 year old adoptive son started hitting on me. He is 26. I am 21. Very attracted to him... Just want to know if I should trust him and what's going on. The girl he's with... Let's just say she doesn't deserve him.
Most Helpful Guy
He has a son only 7 year younger than he is? That's really fucked up. You're only two years older than the adopted kids age. No drunk words are not always sober thoughts. You're just a side chick.
"got very protective when his 19 year old adoptive son started hitting on me."
Wait did he get protective of his son or you?3
Most Helpful Girl
19 year old adoptive son? the fuck?
anyway, no. This is a disaster waiting to happen. DO NOT count on him leaving his girlfriend for you. Do not hope for it or romanticize about it. A lot of guys will say a lot of shit to you, but they're all talk and no walk. Don't believe it till you see it. He's got to make the decision to leave her on his own. Trust me, I've been in this situation and it ended badly for me.2
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