I am struggling with how to understand how I am supposed to attract them. I am attractive, I make good money, I'm smart, I have a good number of friends, and I am pretty friendly, but apparently I dont act the right way because women dont ever seem interested in me. I thought I was everything they ever wanted, I mean what kind of woman doesn't want a good looking guy with money who treats her right? If they dont like that then they must be crazy, I thought thats what they want but apparently they only want those things if the guy acts a certain way, go figure I get all those things and get screwed over for some other fault that I have no idea how to change. I can make myself richer, by just working harder, I can make myself more attractive (I just buy better clothes, change my hairstyle, etc), but I dont know how to change my personality to make women want me. Why do they have to go for such abstract things in men, why can't women just like tangible things. What do they really want that I am not providing them?
Most Helpful Girl
I can't speak for anyone else, but I like honesty, confidence, emotional attachment, attentiveness, the ability to laugh at himself,, independence, the ability to love a woman for who she is, and a wild sense of humor.
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Most Helpful Guy
Spend that money on yourself , try to live happily alone , the world is changed , it's not like how it used to be back in 80 years , I know how you feel , I felt the same way back , there are many medical equipment or technics that will make you to be less attracted to women or females in general.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE