I am struggling with how to understand how I am supposed to attract them. I am attractive, I make good money, I'm smart, I have a good number of friends, and I am pretty friendly, but apparently I dont act the right way because women dont ever seem interested in me. I thought I was everything they ever wanted, I mean what kind of woman doesn't want a good looking guy with money who treats her right? If they dont like that then they must be crazy, I thought thats what they want but apparently they only want those things if the guy acts a certain way, go figure I get all those things and get screwed over for some other fault that I have no idea how to change. I can make myself richer, by just working harder, I can make myself more attractive (I just buy better clothes, change my hairstyle, etc), but I dont know how to change my personality to make women want me. Why do they have to go for such abstract things in men, why can't women just like tangible things. What do they really want that I am not providing them?
What do women want from guys?
What Girls Said 4
I could care less about if he has friends or money. I want a portion of his attention, a taste of romance, and much respect. I also want someone who will act silly with me, and to top ot iff, he needs to be attractive in a sense0
I can't speak for anyone else, but I like honesty, confidence, emotional attachment, attentiveness, the ability to laugh at himself,, independence, the ability to love a woman for who she is, and a wild sense of humor.
I can't say all I want is a kind funny cute guy I can have fun with because not all guys who are all of those things are guys I'll develop feelings for. Its deeper and more complicated than that.
Maybe you don't know how to put yourself out there0
someone who is not a jerk and likes them more for who they are and not there size , look etc.0
What Guys Said 0
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