Most Helpful Girl
At your ages, it would bother me. I feel like 20 and 30 are very different times in your life and what you want in your near futures may not be compatible. It's not the same as 40 and 50 dating. Not saying that it can't work or that you guys don't have the same goals but just that I think it's usually less likely. What I wanted at 20 is not at all similar to what 30 me will want.