Most Helpful Guy
If you are doing it behind your boyfriends back and you "love" doing it, its pushing the envelope. Talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels. If he's really not happy, you can choose to either break up with him (be it because he's overly jealous or because you vallue your little chats more) or you can not make those texts.
Does he have a reason to be suspicious? Why is he deffensive?
Most Helpful Girl
sounds like this guy you'r talking to might be a potential love interest even though you might deny it. he could end up very well becoming your plan B guy. I don't know anything about your current relationship but just texting this guy is not considered cheating unless you are both flirting here and there.
I found out my husband was recently still in contact with the girl he cheated on me with last year. he texted her whenever he wanted because he memorized her number by heart and deleted the text before he got home. I was extremely angry about it because i honestly hate her for knowing all about me and fucking my man anyways. He supposedly ended his contact with her which i call B. S because he said he loves talking to her and that she's like a best friend, that she thinks like him and makes him laugh. I believe he's secretly waiting for her to turn 17/18 so they can finally be together legally but hey thats my problem.
If i was in ur mans shoes and found out i would be uncomfortable because i wouldn't know what your true intentions are with your old friend. you should consider if your not fully happy in ur current relationship or if you wish you done more with this old friend of yours.
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