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Wow it must have hurt. I had been in a similar situation but the guy was my age and my best friend. LOL So original...
I was in love with him for seven years or so and never had enough courage to tell him about my feelings.
Even if he was a class A jerk but I never saw beyond his face and smile. It's like I was dumb-ified. (not sure if that's even a word but getting the picture?) I would help him with his homework and stuff and then one day he asked my best friend (girl) out. It killed me.
But it made me strong. I was hurt but then I saw what he really was. I noticed how he only talked nice to me when he needed something.
NOW what's the point in telling you all this stuff?
Because sweetheart sometimes when we get obsessed with one thing we ignore the beauty of all other beautiful things around us. All we see is the shine and luster not the underlying dark and grime.
Stop and look at yourself in the mirror. You are a beautiful and amazing person. You are fun and lovable. But it's time girl that you stop this obsession by slowly cutting him off.
Don't go into straight hating him and blocking him out of your life. Give yourself some time to deal with this. Reduce your dependability on him. Avoid making any kind of calls to him.
Hope this helps.
Good luck and revert back with any progress. ^_^0