Anyway, I'm just confused what "friends first" really means. Does he hope to sleep with me one day? Does he just wanna be friends until someone else comes along? Or maybe he really just wants to be friends? I enjoy his company and don't mind having him as a friend, but when he flirts with me or caresses my hair, I get a tad confused.
Oh and by the way, I looked him up on Facebook and found out he has a 6 year old daughter. He hasn't told me this, but at the same time, I've never asked if he had kids.
Thoughts are appreciated.
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Sounds like you're really into him. Its natural to be curious about him and while you told him that you're not into hookups, he's asked for time. And you found out he has a daughter. I guess he's trying to make up his mind. Try to get to know the guy better before getting further involved. Being friends right now is good, after he's ready to open up some more. I guess you'll be more clear about what you want then. Good luck. I'm cheering for you.