Black men can say they love white or Latina women and they never get called out for it. But whenever a white man says he likes black women then he just wants to fulfill his "slave fantasy?"
Most Helpful Guy
Well the fact remains that if you're white you have a superior position in the dating world. White people aren't objectively superior but our society certainly props up whiteness and European beauty standards. I think sometimes when a white guy says he likes a nonwhite woman it can turn heads because he's going for something that less people in society deems attractive or desirable. Again women of all ethnic backgrounds can be gorgeous and I don't discriminate based on race but I'm just talking about how society looks at it sometimes. People think that he must have an unhealthy sexual fetish or just wants to sleep with a black woman or whatever as a reason to crossing those racial lines.
In reality there are white men and black women who fetishize each other just like there are white women and black men who fetishize each other and it isn't healthy. I've seen examples of this in my own life. If you're attracted to someone you should like them as an individual not because they're some prized racial trophy. Interracial dating can be a beautiful and enriching experience learning about different cultures if it's done for the right reasons. It can be explosive if it's done for the wrong reasons like I mentioned earlier.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've never heard of it being called a "slave fantasy" before but from experience, it's because that's how they act. Most white guys that has been interested in me has always mentionedyou race over and over. "I've never been with a black girl before." "I've always wanted to be with a black woman." "Being with a black girl is a fantasy of mine." I've heard them all before. So I can't help but feel like it's less about wanting to actually be with me and more about feeding a kink. And I know it's not all white guys.1