Why are the pretty girls always single?

I am so angry with life. Every friend I have had has been in a relationship. I am 21 and don't even get approached by guys. I have GAD but there are psychotic individuals that are married and are in love. I have never been in a relationship. I go to college and never get approached. It makes me so angry I could fucking punch a baby knowing I am 21 and have never been in a fulfilling relationship. I honestly don't want to hear shyt concerning how I have time and there is every bread for its cheese, all that cliche stuff. All my life I've been told I'm pretty and what not, I guess I'm not? This has caused me to just hate men and every guy that has given me a chance, I rejected and lead them on to eventually just cutting them away from my life. I hate this predicament. I am so angry and fulfilled with life as it is. Im tired of hearing I have a good life and what not, everything seems unfulfilled knowing that I am going to spend the rest of my life alone. Even my 17 year old cousin has already fallen in love, regardless of the fact it didn't end so well. What is wrong with me or the stupid men around me? -_-


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  • "I am so angry with life. Every friend I have had has been in a relationship. I am 21 and don't even get approached by guys."

    You do get approached. You say that guys do give you a chance later on.

    "This has caused me to just hate men and every guy that has given me a chance, I rejected and lead them on to eventually just cutting them away from my life."

    I can understand being angry at men for being alone (though it's not helpful) but why lead guys on?

    "I hate this predicament. I am so angry and fulfilled with life as it is. Im tired of hearing I have a good life and what not, everything seems unfulfilled knowing that I am going to spend the rest of my life alone."

    I know you won't like hearing this but you're still very young. 21 is still just a kid. I'm 22 and when I complain about how I'll never do something, older people just laugh.

    I think there are reasons that make it more likely for you to still be single based on what you said (the anger and anxiety) but you just need to be patient. It sucks but it's true.


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  • "every guy that has given me a chance, I rejected and lead them on to eventually just cutting them away from my life"

    Sounds like your predicament is entirely your fault.

    Coupled that with hating men and never bothering to approaching anyone yourself, I'd say it's perfect that you're single.

    You have a horrible personality. No one deserves to be subjugated to the hell that is your company.

    • Isn't that somewhat of a brutal analysis? Damn girl. Horrible personality ouch

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    • Holy fuck that avatar is spooky. Something sadistic about it. It's freaking me out man. MaskedSanity I'm not clicking your avy until you change it. I get the feeling it's a screamer gif and it' show you with a knife covered in blood laughing while holding a head.

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What Guys Said 31

  • It's those men, I mean how dare they not date you. Those stupid men.

    • the answer is in the sarcasm.

      hating men should give her a better chance lol

    • @truthhammer yeah I sensed a bit of sarcasm in this statement.

  • Someone's bitter. I understand though, and it's fucked up knowing that there are less qualified individuals in relationships, but this is the only reasonable part of your clusterfuck of a question.
    Please (and sorry to be blunt), stop acting like an idiotic little bitch. Contrary to popular belief, it's NOT a man's job to approach the girl. It's good, but it's not freaking mandatory!
    And come on, to add insult to injury, you're (or at least sound like) one of those absurdly picky girls? I'm not saying "beggars can't be choosers"(even though you sound pretty desperate), but lower your freaking standards a little bit. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you probably won't marry a 6ft Brad Pitt look-alike who happens to be a billionaire. If you think that the world will be like the imaginary utopia that only exists in your head, you are in for a rude awakening.
    And come on, you lead on every guy that you ever gave a chance on? Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you? You really sound like a whiny, snobby, stupid little bitch. No wonder you're single.
    You wanna know what's wrong with you? You're a hypocrite. Would you want to date a hypocritic douche? Yeah, guys wouldn't want a hypocritic bitch either.
    Realize one thing: you've got the fucking power when it comes to relationships. You (just like every girl) can just sit in a corner and choose ANY guy you want. Worst case scenario: you approach a guy and he will most likely want to be with you (but since you're a crazy bitch, you will lead him on).

    Now, stop whining like a stupid bitch, lower your standards and maybe approach a guy or two. If you do this, there may be hope. Or don't do it, I don't give a shit.

    I normally don't act like this, but your question really pissed me the fuck off. It's so annoying watching girls whine about the fact that they don't have a boyfriend when they can choose every guy they want.

    • Let me start with this, why would my opinion and question bother you? Is it because you are too shy to approach a girl and know there are similar girls like myself man hating because of your lack of cajones? I know there are girls like me and I am one of the few to be blunt about this situation. Second of all, clearly the world is a messed up place, that is common sense. And oh I'm sorry, I forgot you're a fucking psycho. So I guess I'm a whiny bitch, you're a sensitive and irrational dick. There, we are even.

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    • How am I a terrible person?

    • I don't know you that much to tell that you're an all around terrible human being. If anything, I'm telling you that you're terrible at relationships. Please, do me a favor: stop leading guys on and just give them a chance. Sometimes they'll be good, sometimes they'll be bad. Point is, if you keep leading them on, it will only feed your frustration even more and you'll create more unnecessary problems for yourself.

      Plus, you don't really have to do anything to get a boyfriend. You don't have to approach, you don't have to be interesting, ultra-confident or assertive. You just need to sit in a corner and pick any guy you want! Seriously, you're pretty (according to you, at least), guys are simple creatures, their requirements are around 80% looks and 20% personality.

      Now, if you keep whining about it, you'll be frustrated for a long time!

  • I wouldn't put GAD on the same scale as psychosis lol...
    Have you ever tried approaching guys? This is the 21st century you know.

    • No I don't approach guys, they are supposed to approach the girl.

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    • grow up, QA. You want something, then go get it...

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  • ~ Why do you want a boyfriend so badly? Perhaps if you stopped focusing on that and relaxed a bit more, one will come up naturally. :)
    ~ Perhaps you shouldn't wait for a guy to come to you, and approach one yourself?
    ~ Also, hating boys for your lack of boyfriends is sort of childish.

  • Maybe you're the one with the problem? You rejected guys? Chances are one of those guys was the one. To hate all guys because of a mistake you made is just wrong. And it seems like you're comparing yourself to other people. Stop doing that!

    • Comparison is terrible I agree. It's a trap I tend to be engulfed in. All these comments are just making me realize that I'm probably a crappy person lol

    • I couldn't say that you are a crappy person. Maybe you are. Maybe you aren't. All I know is that you need to change your view of people, especially guys. Not all guys are created equal. I don't believe I've compared myself to other guys, as I never seen the need to. Granted, I have wondered if I'm in the same league as some girls. Just about every guy goes through THAT.

  • "Every bread for its cheese" Lmfao

    Yea, it does suck
    And it gets annoying listening to those just wait cliches
    Anywho, yea ur probably just intimidating a lot of guys, it's unfortunate but likely

    • Someone empathetic and realistic. I hear so much crap, I am beginning to hate people in general.

  • I don;t understand. You said you said guys give you a chance, you reject them or lead them on. How can you hate men for you doing that?

    • I don't know. I have a phobia or just some unresolved anger?

    • I guess so. I am sorry I do not really have any ideas for you :(

    • Not your fault.

  • You aren't having fulfilling relationships because you are sabotaging yourself. You may be beautiful on the outside, but you are angry and that is beyond unattractive. It's scary. Figure out why you are so angry and then put your anger on the person who caused it. You don't have to forgive them, you just have to stop being angry with the wrong people. Your college may have free or inexpensive counseling services. Talk to someone and figure this out.

  • ". . . every guy that has given me a chance, I rejected and lead them on to eventually just cutting them away from my life."

    There is your predicament.

  • Always? Most of them pretty girls are usually taken, but then again beauty is subjective.

    • I guess I'm not attractive then -_-

    • I'm not saying you aren't attractive or beautiful, but maybe you just haven't found the right guy for you or something? It'll come you know? But even if it doesn't come, which is really unlikely, it's best to have tried than not at all.

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What Girls Said 19

  • Maybe becausw tou hate and lead them on :p
    Like wth calm your tits woman life is not ivee if you didn t have a boyfriend at 21. Maybe if you looked more approachable and less pisses off people would talk to you.
    I am 20 turning 21 soon and never had a boyfriend, tku don t see me trolling and I am pretty too.

  • There is nothing wrong with a girl approaching a guy, whomever came up with the idea that only men should be approaching the girl were sexist assholes.

    If you want a man go get one, sitting around and waiting for something to happen could lead you too a long wait, not because there is something wrong with you but because that's how life can work.

    • You're somewhat right.

  • Ur probably just to picky. Since you push away the guys that have tried

    • No such thing as "too picky"

  • What's wrong with you? You reject the guys who try to give you a relationship after leading them on. You said it yourself.

  • Normally it has to do with the vibe people get off along with their looks and other things.

    Judging by what you typed I'm not surprised most guys don't approach. You sound pretty negative, bitchy, and people probably can read that. Happiness isn't an external thing it's internal.

    Try watching these videos they might help give you a better outlook.

    • I'm that bad huh?

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    • I'm very introverted and may come across as stuck up.

    • As I previously mentioned. Best of luck to both of us :)

  • Why are you so bitter about being single?
    Maybe you should try being happy without feeling need of being a relationship.

    • Working on that slowly ๐Ÿ˜

  • It's the anxiety that is keeping them away. Think of how hellish it is for you to deal with it every day of your life. Now picture someone else who has zero coping skills getting faced with it suddenly. It's hard to love when you have serious anxiety and it's hard to be with someone with serious anxiety. It's terrible burden on both parties. I'm not picking on you. I have anxiety! I can't be with a guy who has anxiety because then there is no hope, both of us setting each other off, wanting to kill each other etc. Anyway, it's scary to people. I know this to be true all too well. Get it under control and your chances will improve considerably.

    • Anxiety is slowly ruining my life. I am on 2 medications and exercise regularly to tone it down. Life would be better without it.

    • I understandโ™ก

  • Wow and this time, you never chip in to start a convo with a guy, now how is it their fault that your single? Hmm. You sound spoilt and use to having your own way with your family. Well deal with it, you are in the big wide world, no one gets something unless they make an effort or at least try!

    • I am somewhat spoiled with my family, you're right. I mean, I work hard for what I have, they treat me well, doesn't necessarily mean I'm spoiled. And for starters, several people are spoiled.

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    • So now you have to pleasure yourself cos guys ain't coming to your hot shit

    • So your the loser who lost it

  • Same heree ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ i feel like im forever alone even tho i get complimented a lot and I reject guys bc they're not my typeee๐Ÿ˜ฉ Anw im not losing hope ๐Ÿ˜‚

    • Oh wow you're really cute too! Don't worry, we can cat hoard together :)

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    • Okay as you like the point is that we're saved to someone special๐Ÿ˜Œ

    • Maybe you are I'm not.

  • As a single girl, this question helps my self esteem thanks anon

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