Most Helpful Guy
My main exes, hell no.
But it's not a universal rule. I have a cousin who is married to a guy she dated in hs (not her 'first bf' either for anyone wondering, i guess she dated about 3 guys in hs? he was #2?), broke up, dated other people (pretty seriously) then reconnected like 8 years later and got married.
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, I'd let it be. I come out of the relationship a different person than the person I was when I was in the relationship. Life's meant to be travelled forwards not backwards.
I have had friends who have gotten back with exes and they are still with them, and very happy Sometimes it's a case of " better the Devil you know than the Devil you don't"