Maybe he's sees me as the woman he'd want to settle down with? He's said prior that he sees a fully committed relationship with me, just not right now.
We had a talk a few days ago, and I expressed concerns I had been having about us (i. e. we are on different levels with the relationship. He wants to go slow, and I'm all about taking it as it comes). We talked it out. What's great about him and I is that we can communicate or concerns without feeling judged.
I told him maybe we just weren't meant to be because I'm ready for a bf/gf relationship now, but he feels he can't provide me that right now, because he feels that he can't be the best boyfriend to me with all his responsibilities.
When I said maybe we weren't meant to be, he said to not think that way. Does this ultimately mean something? Do you think he is wanting to focus on himself so that he can provide me a future? I think he's a little insecure about where he is currently at in his life. He thinks I'm special because I have all my shit together. He says it's attractive.
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Yeah I say he wants to be in a relationship with you. He just wants to make sure he can give you his all.1