She lives an hour away from me, and we really only get to see each other on the weekends. The fact that she is willing to drive all that way to me and spend the weekend at my place is positive, as well as when we are together, she is very nice and sweet and tells me how she is happy we are spending time together.
However, when we are not together, she takes a long time to reply back to me and it really bothers me. Now I understand that not everyone has their phones glued to their hands and actually are busy and have lives, but it sometimes takes her hours to reply back. In addition, i see that she is active on facebook messenger and i think to myself, "well why can't she just respond to me?" Or maybe i text her at night and she falls asleep and i dont hear from her till the next afternoon or until i message her again the next day at some point. Granted, she is busy as a nanny taking care of a few kids throughout the day, and i get that she is busy at times, but its when I see her as active on facebook after I had already texted her, or posts up a pic on instagram, is when this really bothers me. I feel like i text her more than she tries to text me.
My question is, is she doing this on purpose? does she want to keep me on my toes? Is she losing interest? I dont want to bore her, or make her think that I am desperate for her attention, although it would give me so much more comfort to hear from her more often.
She's told me in the past that she would get bored with old boyfriends and thinks its fun to sometimes mess with guys heads. I know, it sounds crazy, why would I like her right? Because other than those red flags, she makes me feel good and is nice to be around.
Why do I feel so anxious about this and why is she doing this?