So I'm a single lady between the ages 20 and 25, I am starting to get over the fact that my ex boyfriend and I may not be getting back together, he seems to have moved on and it is time I do too. I don't have a lot of friends, the few that I do have, have work commitments and love lives. I know how to dress well and look good without revealing too much. Life does get a little lonely sometimes, and I sometimes feel like going out, but friends are not always readily available. My question is, if I had to go on a night club on my own, dress well, look good, and go out to a night club, without friends, for a cocktail or two, would that be weird? What do you think of a person that goes to a night club on his/her own?
Most Helpful Guy
"What do you think of a person that goes to a night club on his/her own?"
It's great that you'd feel comfortable doing so however i'd be most concerned for your safety. Even if you planned on not drinking a single drink, it's still concerning for a women to go out by herself let alone a "night club" no matter how safe the area.
-- In my opinion those types of outings are more fun with a group of friends anyways. I'd say pass it up until you start socializing with others who may potentially want to do the same activities.1
Most Helpful Girl
Eh, depends on where you live and what club you plan on going to. I used to live in a studio apartment above a club about three to five minutes away in walking distance from the main clubbing/bar street in town. There were a couple of times that I went to this lounge/bar/club place alone out of pure spontaneity and not wanting to wait for friends to get ready. But that suited me because I'm cool with all of the bartenders/bouncers there and a few of them are my good friends so although I was going alone, I wasn't staying there alone. However, I don't think I would recommend that for a woman who's not in a similar position. It can be dangerous going to a night club alone and we must be realistic about the types of predatory individuals who would view you as a target. If you do choose to go alone then it will be important for you to have a certain level of confidence and chill vibes for you to not feel all awkward and isolated. You don't want to come off as awkward or lonely.0