Well me and him start dating about two months after they broke up and I find out she was trying to get back with him. He didn't entertain it.
He blocked her, which I wanted him to, but I was surprised the other day when he mentioned feeling bad and wanting to unblock her. He said it bugged him while he was in work release. He said it probably bothers her when she tries to message him and sees that she's blocked and he feels bad because of their mutual agreement to remain friends if they broke up. He also feels bad for blocking her mom because she was nice to him or whatever. I know how he is, he's a lot like me and he's very kind hearted and sees the good in everyone.. So he sees the good in her despite the trouble and grief and stress she caused him and he feels she didn't intentionally hurt him. He was also talking about feeling bad for breaking up with her drunk and how it shouldn't have ended that way, which also upsets me that he said that.
anyway, after our talk I put my feelings inside (that he knows of) and told him I don't care if he unblocks her. But he said he doesn't feel guilty anymore and feels better after our talk. He never intended on messaging her or wanting to talk to her, but just so she wouldn't feel upset seeing she was blocked and he said he understands why I'm scared and would never go see her alone..
so so am I ridiculous for feeling worried he might still have feelings? It's bugging me so badly