My only two girlfriends cheated on me. I still miss them both, but they now both have new boyfriends that are way more attractive than me. I seriously have hit an all time low and i dont know what to do with myself. I have a good amount of friends and go out a lot, but it still doesn't help. I keep saying that im ugly, stupid, too nice, and all this negative shit. I never think like that. How can i overcome this? I literally haven't felt so terrible in my life, and i dont even want to consider dating again. Falling in love is like killing yourself nowadays..
Most Helpful Girl
i been used 7 times and I am not ugly , being cheated on has nothing to do with looks
having self pity isnot going to make a girl stay or get you laid all you can do is accept and move on to the next0
Most Helpful Guy
Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. You get over it by stopping the pity party and feeling sorry for yourself. It's about realizing that there is more to life then dating, chasing girls and snagging up a girlfriend. you need to focus on your goals and plans for your life. Where do you want to be in the next five years? What do you want to be doing? if you don't know then you need to get serious about figuring it out. There is nothing more sexy then a man with a plan that is confident, knows what he wants, goes for it and makes it happens. A guy that carries himself in a way that without even saying anything, says "I got this". Thats confidence. That's the guy that gets the quality women every guy wants, not the guy that is insecure and won't get off the pity train. I'm not trying to be dick or bust your chops, but it is what it is. I've been where you've been, and I wish there would have been someone to tell me what I am telling you, perhaps I could have saved myself a lot of heartache and headaches.1