I get its only been a few days, but still. When I try to talk to other guys he just gets mad and jealous..
Im just stuck in this confusion.. I like him and want to be with him.. and he won't tell me what he wants and won't ask me to hangout.. and when I try to meet other people he gets mad and jealous.. he's not talking to anyone or sleeping with anyone else I just don't get it..
Most Helpful Guy
You need to express your feelings to him. Tell him want more. Saying you want to be "just friends" is telling him your tired of him/not interested... basically the opposite of how you really feel. Your giving him mixed signals. Ask him what he's doing and drop possible options to go out movie, dancing.. not just hooking up. Like I say in most of the girl posts like this... You're in control/have the power. If you want to do something tell him, if he doesn't say ok, I'll go with friends... He'll change his mind. Don't just sleep with him, because your just fuck buddy, a step up would be fwb's ( fuck buddy's that also hangout) what I have. If you want a "BF/GF Relationship" that is a big step up from what you have now. He might not want to get too serious, but if you stop having sex, it might change his mind... at least for a while.
Most Helpful Girl
I think he's just using you and you should find someone who deserves your love and care. don't settle for a guy who just wants to sleep with you and have sex but then not care about how you feel and want to know about who you are. if you let him use you, you will only end up getting hurt. I think its time for you to find someone who wants to spend their life with you and getting to know you instead of just everyone in a while sleeping with you because they can't commit.