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I worry about this a lot. I'm a decent guy, and I've been complimented by women a fair amount. I've been told I'm good-looking several times, I've been told I'm a good conversationalist, I've even been told that I'm funny. And, girls have told me that I make them smile, make them happy. That they enjoy my company.
And yet here I am, with no girlfriend. Not now, not in the past. And I don't know what I can do.
I've had dreams and goals in life, but have been afraid to pursue them out because I'm afraid I'm fundamentally average and can't really get good at anything. I'm afraid to get into self-improvement, because I worry that it won't make any difference at all. I'm not sure what to do.