I'm in a long distance relationship with a really good guy. I love him more than anything, but I feel like his behavior and feelings towards me may have changed over the last month. We had a hard time and a few fights since then, but we always made up again. Nonetheless I don't feel his love like I used to. He used to (call me on my cell phone.. JOKE :D) text me sweet, long compliments, wait for me to get home when I was clubbing and he was overall so attentive and full of love. Now he really toned it down. But especially in a long distance relationship your really need to feel that love and care.. what should i do? I guess he is taking me and my affection for granted..
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Give him an ultimatum. To be loving & sweet or to get lost.
Honestly, being sweet to one's girl has to come from a guy's heart. If its not volitional and sincere, what is the point? Don't bother trying to enforce a certain behavior you want on your guy, doing so will not bring your r/s true bliss but strive. Dump his stupid ass if can't be sweet to you naturally.