Two weeks ago he lost his job and I don't really know why. I think he just wasn't doing too well in this new field. He seems a bit depressed about it and has been avoiding me. Everyday I'll call him to ask him if he's doing ok and he kind of just brushes me off, and when I text him he won't respond anymore.
Should I just give him his space? Do you think this is over and I should just walk away? I like him a lot so the thought of giving up makes me sad.
My girlfriends are all telling me to just forget about him. They said he's a loser who can't hold a stable job and that a man in his 30's should have his career figured out. they also said I always take too long to realize a guy isn't good for me and it's about time I let this one go and that I need to learn to cut guys off right away and not give them so many chances.
Are they right? Should I Just forget about him and tell him I'm done? Should I wait it out? I really don't know what to do.
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No one else should be telling you what to do with your life. It sounds like your boyfriend is depressed and embarrassed. Send him a note that says, "When times are tough, we should be there for each other, but you won't give me the chance. Please allow me to remain close to you, because. . . I really like being close to you." That says all that you need to say, and then it's up to him.1