Most Helpful Girl
This is the thing I don't understand, why is she your ex? She's your ex for a reason. If it didn't work why do you continue playing that role that no longer belongs to you. What do you OK think you're playing. Would you like to see that message on your gf's phone? Don't do what you wouldn't like a person to do to you! if you're not fully over her , have some time alone and think what you want but don't play those mind games because at the end you're the one that's gonna end up really bad because if she's acting weird I because she realises that is a mistake! Use common sense
Most Helpful Guy
The biggest mistake you made was initiating conversation with her. Only respond when she reaches out to you. BUT both of you are in a relationship this isn't really fair to your S/O's.