I have needs. You are fooling yourself if you think love is the only thing to a relationship. It seems like I always seem to date the women that don't want to have sex but just want to kiss, waste my time and money, and build a connection. Sex isn't the only thing I want. It is an important part of a relationship.
What should I do?
I have already gone through this once.
Most Helpful Girl
If you genuinely believe that your penis is more of a priority than honoring her feelings then it would be best for the both of you to go your separate ways. Your sense of entitlement and this attitude where you seem to expect vagina in return for your time and money is highly off-putting and slightly disgusting. That's coming from a woman who is far from a virgin and enjoys sex.
You feel like your penis in a vagina is a priority. For whatever reason, she does not wish to experience that. You don't think it's fair for you to be in a relationship and not get your dick wet. I'm sure she doesn't think it's fair to feel pressured by you and trivialized as a woman by you for not willingly spreading her legs. The only option is for you to leave the relationship and move forward. But don't bitch and complain shall you find another female who gladly fuqs you yet can't satisfy you on a certain level mentally and emotionally.6
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Most Helpful Guy
I think that was something tou two should have ALREADY discussed in great length in what each other want in a relationship in all aspects before heading into a relationship. I can tell you that the both of you are strongly uncompatible sexually for each other. There's only one outcome to this new r/s, I think you should re-iterate to your girlfriend what you want and what your needs are. If she still feels like that she does not want to have sex with you at all while being together then it's probably best for you to end the relationship. If you already feel like your needs aren't met then there's no use in fighting against what you want because it will make you miserable. If you are not already!0