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That question has definitely crossed my mind several times. Wondering how often sex is the fueling force behind my boyfriend and I choose to stay together, and how we would fare without it, or with less of it.
Though neither of us got together primarily to have sex (or at all, as neither of us were sexually active so it never even came up in conversation), I think it was definitely a much bigger factor in us as a couple in our first few months together. When we'd fight over the most ridiculous, petty issues, only to resolve things with make-up sex. When we'd hang out several times a week to basically just have sex.
Now, it's very different. Sex is still a big part of our relationship, but I think we're both in it for more than just that. Sex definitely has it's fair share of appeal, but I'm with my boyfriend because I love him for who he is as a person, and how he makes me feel. Not for his dick powers. :P