I realized I'm scared to meet people. I talked to a guy last night on tinder and for a couple hours today, and he mentioned we should get together one of these nights if I'm not too tired after work.
i love the idea, I would absolutely like to meet up with him. But I'm afraid to actually make concrete plans to do so.
Because I'm scared of boring him, I guess. I'm not much of a conversationalist and I'm awkward as hell. But i REALLY want to see where it could go. I'm conflicted as hell.
Question in title, obviously.
Most Helpful Guy
99% of people are worried about meeting people - They feel the exact same things you do but some are just better at hiding it. Lets look at your paragraph
"Because I'm scared of boring him, I guess. I'm not much of a conversationalist and I'm awkward as hell. But i REALLY want to see where it could go. I'm conflicted as hell"
Well from what I can see from your activity on the site - When I see your username I check your comment out because I think you are very interesting with a mixture of revealing insights about yourself, very funny thoughts and some good reflections on life. That to me would count as the basic skills of a good conversationalist.
You like most of us have shy streak inside us and getting around it is one of life's mysteries. How often have you hit it off with someone and felt comfortable with them, you were still that shy slightly awkward girl with them at the start. So the fact is you don't know what way it will turn out unless you try.
In conclusion from what I know of you and if you hit it off, that guy would be a lucky guy to meet a girl like you so my advice is go for it, who knows - Instead of mulling over what could go wrong maybe think about what can go right?0
Most Helpful Girl
I am. I fear being too awkward because, well because I'm awkward! Lol, but I've gone through similar situations and I always find reasons not to meet up. I can hold a conversation but I'm very fidgety when I talk and I don't look people in the eye when they talk so they always think that I'm not paying attention or interested.0
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