I happened to find out that a guy I've been just on a few dates with is also dating around... No surprise, most do - but I always get grossed out at the thought of it... I don't get intimate with the guy but the fact that he try's and knowing he does the same with others... I've seriously lost hope - I get thats the dating world and I can't help my disgust but my views are different... I don't like feeling like a convenience... Is it too cold or wrong of me to simply ask the guy to just spare me and let me be, I don't want to feel like another convenience... I'm fully aware he doesn't owe me anything and I would never make anyone change... But I don't want to be just another girl
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You are perfectly entitled to how you feel. The dating word is quite gross (not only for you or only for girls) in that sense. Most people will date several others until things get serious, at which point - hopefully - they cut things off elsewhere.
Once you've sifted through enough dirt you'll eventually find someone you like though. Reality sadly is that unless you're putting yourself out there you won't be found (or find someone).1