thats all. I'm still upset. He's never cheated on me before and I'm pregnant with his child, so I'm not too eager to get up and leave. I don't know if that sort of apology is acceptable because I feel like it's not. Or maybe I just demand too much... how should a guy apologize after he does something like this?
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"The most he was gonna do was let her give him a bj," is the worst softening-of-the-blow I've ever heard. By saying that, he's effectively saying, "you're cool with her giving me a bj though right?" It doesn't even sound like he apologized in the first place to me.
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He honestly does not seem too sincere in his apology. I would say you need some time to think and see how he reacts to it. If he is okay with allowing you to have space and puts up very little fight to keep you in his life than chances are it isn't meant to be and you should move on.
I know its not the simple. Especially with a child. But take it from a single mother of 2 children who's fiancé cheated. I know how it feels, and its mentally burdening. Don't put yourself through it. Reevaluate your relationship by yourself and see where you stand and what you deserve.