I don't have high standards. I just want a serious relationship. I have normal standards. I just. I'm about to lose it and put myself out there and just have causal sex and hookups. I just want a guy to take a second look at me and ask me out. throughout HS no one asked me out. I never even kissed a guy before. I'm not ugly I was a cheerleader in HS I was pretty popular I dont know why. I'm nice. I just. I wanna give it up and just let a guy take advantage of me. Because there's no point anymore. Waiting for a guy to ask me out and actually likes me and date me. Guys have asked me out before. I mean one I was close to dating I think it was complicated I don't know. And I think one guy liked me. This other guy I met just wanted a one night stand and I should of just did it. I had chances and I didn't do it I should of. I regret it. I should of done stuff with random guys. Like I 100% respect myself but then sometimes I don't. It's like the complete oppsite sometimes when it comes to guys. All my friends have boyfriends. Like they made out with guys before. I never even kissed a guy before and I'm almost 20. They are 14 year olds making out. I'm such a loser. Any advice for ya girl? #H8Life
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah first take a step back and take a deep breath. It sucks I know but don't just screw someone because it sounds like you're conflicted if sometimes you don't want that. It's just your craving for affection but someone looking for a one night stand will not give you that. They will just fuck you and leave. You'll be left with not having what you desired and then realizing you were just a tool for someone elses enjoyment and that will make you feel like shit.
So what you need to is- and follow me on this one, approach. guys. first... If you see a guy you think is cute and you think you might like to get to know him just introduce yourself and try to get to know him.
Most Helpful Girl
Realistically how much do you go out? How many guys do you meet on a daily basis? Are you very social? Do you initiate? Do you create opportunities to meet new guys?
I find that many people who complain about single tend to sit around and wait for it to magically happen and it doesn't work that way. Nobody will come knocking on your door. So unless you are actively trying everything to meet new guys and go out on dates then you can't really complain much. For example, I'm on three dating sites right now to meet new guys as I don't meet any guys in day to day life.