He's really sweet and we have a great time together. I love him and he claims the same for me :)
For the past few months, he's been complaining about money problems. He had to sell his two favorite guitars just to pay rent, and he's been working his poor butt off at his job for more commission.
For a while we didn't go out much and he never bought me gifts or anything and i didn't care because I'm not into material items anyways, his affection is enough for me. But this past black Friday he told me he wanted to buy me something, and took me to best buy, brought me to the cameras and said "I know you've been wanting a camera, so pick one out."
I was shocked! These were $200-$500 cameras, even with the Black Friday deals! I couldn't let him spend so much on me, we hadn't even been dating a year. Hell, I'm not sure if my own father would spend that much on a gift for me.
I told him no, and he said "I know you want something, i just have to figure out what."
We ended up going to get tea afterwards because i didn't want a big gift at all.
But anyways, lately he's been buying me gifts left and right. Little things, he bought me a pretty little $8 bracelet and a few t-shirts i liked and a star wars ring. He jokes about how I'm spending all his money all the time and it makes me feel bad because it's not like i ask him for these things, he just buys them, and i know he's joking but it still makes me feel bad.
I wanted to even the score with him yesterday by buying me a gift, and he ended up asking if we could get a puzzle to share and build together. But i wanted to get something only for him, i feel like i bought the puzzle for myself because he told me to pick it out and take it home.
If he's having money problems, why would he buy me gifts and take me out constantly?