Before I date a guy: I am somehow confident, sexy, and guys look at me or flirt at me.
After I start dating a guy: my confidence starts to vanish when I start liking him so much. I have crazy ideas like:
*he might find another beautiful woman and forget about me overnight
*no matter how he tells me in the face he likes me or he showers me with affection, I start feeling that this is too good to be true.
How can I break this cycle?
I know a man now and I think we already have feelings for each other. He tells me he is always thinking about me even if we don't talk. But if he doesn't call or text I freak out, but still I don't show him.
Guys-this is destroying me. I know it's me who feels insecure now.
How can I get rid of these thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
It's more about copies than ridding yourself of the feeling. When you feel like that focus on enjoying the moment because unless you're married you never know. so why worry just enjoy it like it's not going to last. don't focus on the negative of the loss but the positive of having it in the moment.