Most Helpful Guy
you're a lesbian if you only have sexual desires for women. if you have sexual desires for men also, you are not a lesbian. however, if you find it hard to connect with me, you should stick with women if that makes you happy.
Most Helpful Girl
Um just because it hasn't worked with men doesn't mean you're a lesbian. Being interested in women and not men means you're a lesbian. But you should probably date women if you had a relationship with a woman.