This was a while ago but I was leading on this guy, well, I was kind of using him as rebound as well.
I felt so bad that I tried to break it off as nicely as I could. He was my friend for 2 years prior to us "dating" so I still cared about him. I told him we should be friends and he lost it and said he didn't wanna be just friends.
So I ended up staying with him. Even though I never really fell deeply in love with him, I did love him, and cared about him so much. :( I always felt like I did the wrong thing.
We are no longer together but I still felt like I used him.
Most Helpful Guy
If any one needed clarification of what the word contradiction means then they won't find a better example than the back ground story to this question.
Are you a bad person? Well what do you think? Nice, decent people usually don't lead people on and use them for their own self-gratification and validation like you did to someone who is your friend. If you treat a friend this way then I really do send my deepest sympathizes to your enemies because they really must receive hell fire from you.
You know you used him and you know you've done wrong but the good news is that you have the capacity for change.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry to say, but using people is quite a sad thing to do. Its harsh and humiliating.0