Don't know where to start...
Well everything is in the title I guess ^^
I never dated anybody at the age of 17 now and never been kissed either. I mean I'm very far from shy and I flirted with tons of boys but nothing happened. I consider myself as average regarding both beauty and cleverness I guess. I mean I'm not dumb considering the fact that i'm top of my class.
Anyways, does anyone has an opinion? thanks in advance !
Most Helpful Guy
First, there is a natural tendency to evaluate milestones and steps taken and compare experience with ones age. However, I believe it is in everyone's best interest to avoid doing this type of self criticism with respect to being normal or not normal. The reason being is everything is relative and subjective so everyones experiences and thinking otherwise will likely lead to mistakes. I once unknowingly had sex with a virgin and later was told the reason she didn't tell me is because she was afraid I wouldn't have sex with her and she wanted to "get it out of the way." That made me feel not only deceived but also lower than a prostitute because at least a prostitute is chosen, I was like a gas station that just happened to be closest to a car that ran out of gas. Sexual experiences always involve another person and she not only robbed herself out of a reaktionship she wanted but I could not trust her and that indirectly became what could of been a special moment her introduction to sex. So, my point is one devalues sexual feelings and experiences by this behaviour and the whole point to keep your eye on your goals. What do you want to experience? If you want to visit Italy one day is flying in and out of the airport good enough or is it better defined by your own creativity by meeting a cute Italian boy and having a kiss near the Spanish Steps to the sound of violins? You see what I mean? It's not 1st, 2nd, 3rd, bases or age, time, benchmarking your friends stories that have meaning. It is the experience itself and how meaningful it is to you. I grew up with 3 sisters so I know everything basically and they are very mature and graphic and think about sex just as much as guys in my opinion. I heard through my door all those slumber parties with my own ears and how it excited their imaginations. However most are likely exaggerating, don't worry about it, follow your instincts as your safety, your hormones as your fuel, your heart as your compass, your body as your method of transportation and finally your creativity and strategy as your romance. Look at the conditions for travel before making a decisions to go, trust your gut and have fun with a copilot who happens to smile while looking in your eyes, treats your right and has fun. He will be the right pick and don't over analyze, girls think to much0
Most Helpful Girl
Oh you poor baby.
That's what you are. A baby. A child. Stop worrying about your relationship history. You have hardly started to live life yet. You're allowed to start worrying about your relationship history when you're 30 and haven't had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) yet. But until then don't worry about it.0