We've talked to each other for 3 weeks straight until Friday the week before, she stopped talking to me. Which is ironic, because that's the day I was gonna tell her how I feel about her. I haven't been able to get ahold of her since that day, I started to get really anxious and worried, and I wanted to tell her how i feel more than anything, so i sent her a really long text last night about how I feel about her because I tried calling and seeing if she wanted to get together all week, but nothing happened. And after 11 days of hardly replying to anything I say, here's what she replied with
-Well thank you that was sweet I've just been really busy and haven't been talking to anyone really so sorry.
is this a valid excuse? Am I in the clear? Is this a good or bad thing for a girl to say to a guy when you really like her?
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, even if I was busy, I'd still make time for a person I really liked. I don't think you are on of her main priorities. That's not necessarily a bad thing, since you aren't exceptionally close and already dating, but it's not a good sign either.
I wouldn't say your chances are blown. Maybe she really was just busy.
Most Helpful Guy
I think you just started to really over-pursue once she backed off.
Your confession wasn't required, and it was too much too soon for her, and she has completely backed away