I'm an attractive girl and I've only had one serious boyfriend ever. I tend to find guys that are only interested in hooking up. I just got out of a "relationship" where the guy refused to make it official for 2 years. The next girl he dated, he became "official" with right away. What am I doing wrong? Why do men not want to be in a relationship with me? Where do I find these "good" guys?
I'm educated, attractive, have a good personality and am not slutty. I try to be a good person and a good friend to everyone I meet. Help please!
Most Helpful Guy
Well, maybe if you stop looking, the proper butterfly will alight on your head. i. e. Find something you love to do (Hiking, tennis, etc) and see if you run into guys with the same interests, so you have something in common to start with. Meetup is pretty good for that, I think they have special groups for almost any possible interest.2
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know how soon you sleep with guys, but I would utilize the 3 month rule. That way, you weed out guys who are simply interested in sex.
There are plenty of good guys out there, but you never know what a guy truly wants until he spends time with you. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong--just because they aren't interested doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you.
I would try dating sites and singles parties. To me, you sound like a catch, so it could be that some guys are intimidated. There are men out there who will appreciate you though. :)0