Did you meet your spouse or partner online? I am very skeptical of the people who are on there. I refuse to do online dating because I have an issue with attracting crazy guys online and offline. I find people who search for love online are usually basketcases. And are desperate for a relationship sorry no offense to these who date online it is just my opinion. You don't have to agree with it.
Most Helpful Guy
As someone who has spent almost 10 years mainly dating online I disagree. That is a very backwards and opinionated way of thinking told you by adults when you grew up. The reality is over 20% of relationships today start online. Even much higher by some stats. Online is no basket cases unless you are attracted to that type of person. People who go online are probably best described as selective and picky. They know what they want and realize traditional dating methods are not very effective at finding it. Going to a bar or a club is a poor way to find real compatibility.
I always say this to skeptical people. If you were shopping and I said you could A: pick from 3 random apples or B: hundreds that have been narrowed down to your preference which would you choose? Anyone in their right mind would choose B. So why letting dating be different? Why settle? The best advice I can give is use sites with good question sets and find people with high compatibility. Take your time, just like the bar or blind dates your going to have duds. BUT online can really give you a great shot at finding someone. I met my ex fiance online and the distance is the only reason we broke up. MOST people you date are not going to be the ones you marry. It takes time online or off just be patient and remember you get weirdos in real life to.5
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Most Helpful Girl
I would never get involved with anyone online. You end up falling for an illusion, then when you meet up your illusion is usually shattered , because the person turns out not to be the person you thought they were. The internet is a Psychopaths playground. I don't trust anyone online. It would be naive to trust.2
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