Now I have realised that the only issue is women not finding me 'physically attractive'. But what bothers me though, is that I'm not bad looking at all. In fact, people compliment me so often on my looks, and some even say stuff like "How could you not a have a girlfriend? You’re so good looking". Even when i put my pics up to get rated, I have never been rated below 5 (which means I'm at least average), and I usually get rated 7 and above.
I'm quite perplexed, honestly. It's not like I'm going for the ultra-beautiful, model-like women. I have even approached average and below average looking women, but none of them are apparently 'physically attracted' to me. I also never come off as creepy, I approach women in a respectful manner. And I'm never pushy if they reject me, I just say "Ok, thanks for being honest" and be on my way.
So what exactly am I doing wrong here? Or should I give up on women altogether? I will be 30 in a month, if that makes any difference.
P. S. Please don’t say that I just haven’t met that one woman yet. Because all I was asking for was a date, and not relationship or marriage. The fact that women aren’t even willing to give me a chance to know if we are compatible, does not bode well for me at all.
P. P. S. I'm sorry, I can't post pics because I don't want more people telling me that I'm not attarctive. Because I know well that I'm reasonably good-looking, and pictures don't accurately represent how a person looks.
Most Helpful Girl
all i can say is... being good-looking enough. there are plenty of good-looking people in the world. but there's a distinction between finding someone attractive and finding someone to good-looking. attractive implies there's some kind of "pull". it just so happens the women you approach are not feeling that pull. i can't really comment further since you won't post pics.
i don't really know what is at the basis of physical attraction. it's intangible and different for everyone.
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Most Helpful Guy
It isn't your looks, it's your game. Women are full of shit, ignore what they say. Get better at conversation, better at being assertive, better at being entertaining. Get more fashionable, both in clothing and hair style.
And get sexual. Women don't see you as a sexual being. Women complain about guy's talking about sex, pushing for sex... Bullshit. fucking ignore them. If you don't present yourself as someone they have to regard in sexual terms... They will treat you accordingly. Stop being so fucking nice.