So for a solid week, I talked to this guy every single day. He's very anti-text and he made a real effort and texted with me. He came to hang out at my house twice, both times staying for quite a while and we got into some really personal talk. He's a pretty private person so I was flattered that he trusted me that much. He also came and visited me at work, twice, once sticking around til I got off. Nothing has happened, just a little snuggling, not even a kiss. Then very suddenly, he acted strange while we were both with friends together (not a date, a group thing) and for the first time today I got no communication at all. I have not texted him. I know I got a bad vibe the last time we were together and I'm not sure if this is a sign he's decided he's not interested or if I should just wait for him to call or text... should I just chalk it up to a false start? Guys, help me out here. He seemed to want to spend all his time with me and then suddenly didn't.
Came on strong then backed away. What is going on?
I do want to add, I really like this guy and don't mind giving him space but if he's not interested, I want to cut my losses now before I get overly attached
Well, I gave in and texted him merry Christmas. Next thing I knew, he showed up at my work and stayed all afternoon. I'm not quite sure what to think.
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He doesn't think you're interested in him so he was backing off.0
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